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November 12, 2025
by Peter Warzynski, Loughborough University
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Every day, millions of people talk to chatbots and AI assistants such as ChatGPT, Replika and Gemini, but what kind of “relationships” are we really forming with them?
In a special issue of the journal New Media & Society, Dr. Iliana Depounti (Loughborough University) and Associate Professor Simone Natale (University of Turin) explore the rise of “artificial sociality”—technologies that simulate social behavior and emotional connection without actually possessing them.
Their article, “Decoding Artificial Sociality: Technologies, Dynamics, Implications,” reveals a number of issues associated with the rise of Large Language Models (LLMs) and AI chatbots.
It argues that the illusion of friendship or understanding created by AI is being deliberately cultivated by technology companies to increase user engagement, such as Spotify’s “AI DJ” with a friendly human voice and Replika’s “virtual companion” chatbots.
Dr. Depounti said, “Companion generative AI bots such as Replika or Character AI exemplify artificial sociality technologies.
“They are created to foster emotional projection, offering users intimacy and companionship through features like avatars, role-playing, customization and gamification—all with monetary benefits for the companies that design them.
“ChatGPT, too, uses artificial sociality techniques, from referring to itself as ‘I’ to adopting tones of authority, empathy or expertise.
“Though these systems simulate sociality rather than recreate it, their power lies in that simulation—in their ability to engage, persuade and emotionally move millions of users worldwide, raising deep ethical questions.”
The study shows how social cues are engineered into products to keep people interacting longer.
Other issues include:
Dr. Natale said, “Artificial sociality is the new frontier of human–machine communication in our interactions with generative AI technologies.
“These systems don’t feel, but they are designed to make us feel, and that emotional projection has profound social, economic and ethical consequences. Artificial sociality technologies invite and encourage these projections.”
Behind these apparently effortless conversations, the researchers warn, lies a vast infrastructure of human and environmental cost.
AI models rely on huge datasets drawn from people’s online interactions and often from their conversations with the machines themselves.
This data is then used to “train” chatbots to sound more human—sometimes with users unknowingly performing unpaid emotional or linguistic labor.
At the same time, the servers powering generative AI consume enormous amounts of electricity and water.
The authors highlight a $500 billion investment by major tech firms in new data centers to meet AI demand, describing it as part of an “extractive” system that turns human communication into corporate assets.
More information: Iliana Depounti et al, Decoding Artificial Sociality: Technologies, Dynamics, Implications, New Media & Society (2025). DOI: 10.1177/14614448251359217
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AI chatbots simulate social behavior and emotional connection without genuine understanding or feeling, fostering an illusion of companionship to increase user engagement. Users often project trust and empathy onto these systems, while their interactions generate valuable data for companies. This process raises ethical, social, and environmental concerns, including exploitation of user data, reinforcement of biases, and significant resource consumption.
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